SURF TIPS WITH LAYNE
PART THREE: PRESSURE --
IT'S ALL MINE
When
I first started, I used to be incredibly nervous when I was put under
pressure. Actually, I just put myself under pressure because I expected
so much of myself. I didn't compete too often as an amateur. I'm one of
the few world champions who didn't have an amateur career. I jumped straight
in. The expectations I put on myself were much higher than anyone else
could have expected of me, and that's why I'm a successful athlete, because
I have incredibly high expectations. When I first started out, I just
absorbed all the pressure, all the expectations, and I forgot I was supposed
to have fun, to just go surfing and really enjoy myself.
I
went through a few years of failing miserably, losing first round every
event. Basically, what pressure is, when it comes to competition, is a
lack of focus on yourself. You're concentrating on all these other things
going on around you, and in your head, anything but what you're supposed
to be concentrating on -- which is just winning.
That's what pressure does; it distracts
your focus. It's easy to succumb to those distractions and make excuses
for your losses, but at the end of the day, the reason you lost is that
you didn't focus on yourself. You didn't give yourself enough preparation
or time to calm yourself down and generate positive affirmation, positive
thoughts.
Pressure
grows when you do well, because everyone expects more of you. A good example
for me is: I was afraid to win the world title for the responsibility
of being the best in the world. When I won, I expected that much more
of myself. I expected to perform on a daily basis as the best in the world.
And we all have our bad days. I put way more pressure on myself after
I was world champion than when I was working my way up. After I won the
second year, I realized I was just making it that much more difficult
on myself. Last year, I realized to just have fun with it and learn from
my experiences and not put extra expectations and pressure on myself,
and I actually did better. The third one was better than the second.
I
won't ease up on myself until I win five, but then I'll always have some
other expectations of myself. But that's just me, that's the way I deal
with it. I don't focus on other people's expectations of me. I have it
within me. If I don't fulfill a goal I've set for myself I'm disappointed.
If someone else expects something of me and I don't do it, then that's
their disappointment. You have to learn to detach yourself from that kind
of pressure. A lot of athletes fall away and say it was the pressure of
competition, but really it's just a mental thing. Before I won the title
I actually went and got a surfing coach cause I felt my surfing wasn't
going anywhere. I wasn't happy with the way I was surfing. Regardless
of how fantastic everyone thought I was surfing, personally it wasn't
enough. I got a coach and went back to the basic fundamentals of surfing.
I had to slow down to speed up.
You
can use the classic cliche -- the only pressure is the pressure I put
on myself. I think it's something you learn, because the only way you
can deal with the pressure of competition is to actually be put under
that pressure and to be involved in competition. People deal with it in
different ways. A lot of people try to ignore it and pretend that they're
not under any pressure, or I -- for one -- acknowledge the pressure and
actually thrive on it because it pushes me and makes me try harder. Here's
a simple guide to cutting through pressure and using it to your advantage:
1. Be ready. Pressure is going
to come from all different angles, especially as you rise through the
ranks. Pressure from sponsors, from friends, from family -- it's all a
part of competition.
2. Acknowledge it. Don't detach
yourself and say it isn't there. Denial will get you nowhere. If you can
pinpoint the source of the pressure, you can differentiate what matters
from what doesn't.
3. Put it into a perspective
of what's important to you as opposed to what's important to everyone
else. Deal with it from a personal level. Focus on yourself. Don't judge
your performance by what everyone else is doing. If you set clear goals
for yourself, it doesn't matter what anyone else says.
4. Stay focused. Don't lose
sight of your objectives. You do have goals, don't you? If not, you shouldn't
be competing. Setting and achieving goals should always be in the back
of your mind, but don't be single-minded. All work and no play makes Layne
a bloody bore, so remember to have fun as well.
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